Feeling anxious can be overwhelming, but you’re not alone. Many people struggle with managing anxiety. In fact, understanding it is the first step to feeling better.
In this blog, you’ll learn what anxiety is, how it affects you, and how to manage it. We’ll also explain myths, symptoms, and effective therapy.
Is it worry or anxiety?
Everyone worries sometimes. You might worry about choosing a café or buying a gift, or you may worry about bigger issues, like a parent’s health.
Worry focuses on specific problems. In contrast, anxiety feels broader. It creates tension and physical symptoms in your body. Worry is often clear and temporary. On the other hand, anxiety feels harder to control and lasts longer.
What is anxiety and when is it a problem?
Anxiety is a normal reaction to stress. However, when anxiety becomes constant or overwhelming, it becomes harder to manage. Anxiety disorders are among the most common mental health conditions in Australia.
According to Beyond Blue, anxiety goes beyond everyday stress. Feeling nervous before a big event is normal and tend to pass. However, for people with anxiety disorders, the feelings are intense and persistent.
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Recognising anxiety symptoms
You may feel anxious if you experience:
- Constant or excessive worry.
- Racing thoughts or poor concentration.
- Restlessness or feeling on edge.
- Trouble sleeping.
- Muscle tension or headaches.
- Fast heartbeat or breathing.
- Fatigue or low energy.
- Upset stomach.
These signs can suggest anxiety. Therefore, a psychologist in Coburg or Surrey Hills from Insightful Living Co. can provide you with support and guidance.ki
How to stop anxiety in the moment
Sometimes anxiety appears suddenly. Other times, something may trigger it. In either case, these tools can help when anxiety shows up:
- Label the feeling: Say to yourself, “This is anxiety”. Naming it gives you some control.
- Practice 2-7-8 breathing: Inhale for 4 seconds, hold for 7, exhale for 8. Repeat 4 times.
- Use the 5-4-3-2-1 grounding technique: Name 5 things you see, 4 things you touch, 3 things you hear, 2 things you smell, and 1 thing you taste.
- Journalling: Write your thoughts in a journal. You may uncover past triggers.
- Move your body: Stretch your fingers, relax your shoulders, or take a short walk. As a result, you may feel calmer.
Daily tools for managing anxiety
If anxiety affects you, these strategies may help. Try them to manage symptoms and build calmness:
- Box Breathing: Inhale for 4 seconds, hold for 4, exhale for 4, hold again for 4. Then repeat 3-5 times.
- 333 Grounding Rule: Name 3 things you see, 3 things you hear, and move 3 parts of your body.
- CBT (Cognitive Behavioural Therapy): This is a proven method that helps change unhelpful thoughts.
- Mindfulness & Meditation: Stay present using body scans or guided imagery.
- Exercise: Walk, swim, or do yoga. Regular movement lowers stress and boosts mood.
- Reality Testing: Ask “What’s the worst that can happen?”, “How likely is it?”, “What could I do?”.
- Talk it Out: Speak with a friend, family member, or therapist. Additionally, sharing feelings reduces the emotional burden.
- Reframe & Affirm: Replace “I can’t do this” with “I’m doing my best.” As a result, this shift builds confidence.
Struggling with anxiety? Our experienced psychologist based in Coburg and Surrey Hills can guide you through managing anxiety with support that fits your needs.
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When to seek professional help
Sometimes tools aren’t enough. In those cases, you may need more support. Therapy can help you at any point in your journey.
We recommend you to reach out if:
- Anxiety stops you from working, connecting, or completing tasks.
- You avoid people or places due to fear.
- Symptoms persist despite self-care.
- You cannot relax even when trying. You have panic attacks.
- Your sleep or appetite suffers long-term.
- You feel stuck, numb, or overwhelmed.
Still unsure with what you need? Insightful Living Co. has psychologists who understand anxiety. Most importantly, we offer care that blends evidence, empathy, and clarity.
Therapy for managing anxiety: How psychologists can help
Therapy offers tools and space to understand and shift anxious patterns. Psychologists work with you to break the cycle of anxiety. They guide you in ways that work for your unique needs.
Therapy helps you:
- Talk about your anxiety safely.
- Find triggers and shift thought patterns.
- Learn calming techniques that suit you.
- Use exposure therapy when needed.
- Build lasting coping strategies.
- Stay on track with progress and goals.
Psychologists can help you explore the root causes of your anxiety. For example, fears of failure or letting others down can lead to social anxiety or imposter syndrome. In many cases, people don’t realise that past experiences still shape their anxiety today. However, therapy can help you work through these patterns and feel freer to grow.
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How Insightful Living Co can help
At Insightful Living Co., we support you in understanding and better managing anxiety with compassion and evidence-based approaches. Additionally, we tailor support to your individual needs.
Our psychologists in Surrey Hills and Coburg offer therapy for generalised anxiety, social anxiety, and panic attacks.
Our Melbourne locations offer in-person and online support. Therefore, you can choose what suits you best. Book a consultation today and begin your next step in managing anxiety.
Your path to managing anxiety starts here
Managing anxiety doesn’t need to feel overwhelming. You can feel calmer and more in control with the right combination of support and strategy. Whether you begin with breathing tools or start therapy, help is available.
You don’t have to figure it out alone. Book your session with Insightful Living Co. today, we’re here to support you in your journey.
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About the author
Anita Missiha (Principal Psychologist at Insightful Living Co)
Anita Missiha is a Principal Psychologist and registered member of the Australian Psychological Society (APS), specialising in anxiety, depression, eating concerns, and work-relat